Right from childhood till death….people make inroads to achieve success….be it exams at school, university exams, job interviews, promotions everywhere man makes plan to fulfill his dream. But there is one thing where a man has failed, no matter how hard he tried or organized his goals. And this basic thing is life…you can ask anybody be a beggar or a millionaire did everything that he planned right from childhood went according to his desires?

The answer you would get is “no it’s not what they had planned of”.

Life is the most complicated that had ever been for a human.

If you ask somebody who just won an Olympic gold how he feels-you would get the reply it seems like life is heaven.

If you ask somebody who just became a father on how he feels-you would get the reply I have never been so happy in my life ever before.

If you ask a bidding writer whose 1st book is being published on how he feels you would get the reply life can’t be better then this.

These are few examples of people who tasted success in their life…now moving on the other side…the failures…

Have you ever asked somebody how he is feeling when he failed in an exam-you would get the reply life is hell

If you ask a business man who lost all his money in shares and is bankrupt –he would reply you that he has lost everything and there is nothing left in his life.

If you ask a person on how he feels after loosing the love of his life-you would get the reply everything has been taken away from his life.

We see different aspects of life from these examples….

The more you know life the more you will feel about your ignorance towards life. There is not much difference between the failures and the winners the only difference is how they approached their goal. The first initial step in many times becomes the decider of their fate whether he is going to win or loose. In other occasion the final steps decides your fate. Whatever it may be a positive thinking always leads to achieving unachievable on the other hand negative thinking leads to losing simple goals.

Some losses are of the nature how hard you try you never achieve …may be because it’s your preparations were never enough for it. Or may be it’s because it was not in your fate. Many people would disagree with me when I am talking about fate but in life there are things which cannot be controlled by human efforts and it’s only the almighty who decides the result.

People would ask what is the appropriate way of leading life or acquiring success? If no planning or pre requisites help to achieve your goal. How should one be aware what has the fate decided for him? What if all his hard work won’t yield any result? These things would make people loose heart even before they start their survival strategy.

Life is not what people often think it is. As I said earlier life is complex is life really complex? The correct answer is no, life is not complex. Life has a close relationship between nature and its simpler rules that govern the universe. We the people have become so complex that we think everything around is complex. Life is not about making stringent rules and abiding by those rules day and night. It’s about realizing smaller things starting from doing what is necessary then what can be done and suddenly you start doing what is impossible. This is how you can succeed in life.

Then the question arises is it enough if we do what is necessary or there are any other necessities. The real life is not living life in accordance with your expectations it’s about living amongst the unexpected. We shouldn’t be bothered about the result we should be concerned to give our best in whatever we do. Life doesn’t give 2nd chance to all so we have to channelize our self in such a manner that even if we fail we should take out the positives from our failures and wipe out the faults so that if we ever get the 2nd chance we don’t have to wait for the 3rd.

It’s often said destiny doesn’t make a man; it’s the man who makes the destiny. Fate and destiny are the words used by the looser to hide their inefficiency. In reality success comes to those who try those who are not bothered about failures. Persons thinking also have a major role on the outcome of his fate. If a person is determined he achieves success be it career, love or anything. Never give up in any circumstances make one thing clear in mind the path to success comes through rigorous commitment. If you want to achieve anything be focused even if the odds are against you and there is no hope within sight because success is only for those who have the patience amongst failures. Being pessimist doesn’t help because if you think negative you loose the first initial step and the person who looses initially seldom ends on a winning note. Success in life depends on person’s attitude his will and his dedication.

If you think you are beaten, you are.

If you think you dare not, you don’t!

If you like to win, but you think you can’t,

it’s almost a certain you won’t.

If you think you’ll loose, you are lost;

for out in the world we find

success begins with a fellow’s will;

it’s all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are,

you have got to think high to rise,

you have got to be sure of yourself before

you can ever win a prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go

to the stronger and the faster man,

but sooner or later the man who wins

is the man who thinks HE CAN.

Success in life comes to the person who thinks “HE CAN”